Most receivers know when they are clean enough for anal sex, or use a plain water douche to clean out. Everyones internal physiology is different, so expect there to be some "hodog down the hallway" areas inside the sphincter and those that are snug. Men who are experience receiving usually exercise the pelvic base area with "kegels" so there can be intense traction, even pulsations. Also men tend to be a bit stronger and more aggressive than women so expect more wrestling and groping. To give anal sex, penetrate, it is as you would experience with a woman, although generally a man will be more into it than most women as the prostate is a big player in the enjoyment factor here and women don't have one. Relaxation, a patient partner, lube, and trust are all key.
On the negative side, you need to learn now to receive and how to give. Some get "overstimulated" and get soft when receiving but usually are enjoying themselves immensely. Many men can come "hands off" by being penetrated anally. Prostate stimulation is incredibly effective, wether by direct massage, or by the penis stimulating the entire area with thrusting (remember they are all tied up together via near by musculature). With these two aspects, physiology and psychology in tandem, anal sex is usually very pleasurable for the receiver. If you are not relaxed, or you being raped, this is hugely frightening and traumatizing and often makes you feel emasculated. You also have a sense of you giving pleasure to your partner with your body. It can be fetishized, but a well adjusted normal person notices the intimacy involved and if you are relaxed about it, it's rather special and pleasurable. Having another person inside of you is a very intimate thing. There are many nerve receptors not just on the penis, that are capable of generating erogenous stimulation. Your prostate is also located just inside the rectum and is also tied up with all this musculature. Your pelvic base muscle is tied to all parts of the bottom of your abdomen. Men also have the same equipment, so it's commonly considered that men give better blow jobs, however this is subjective.įor the answer you are probably looking for, what's it like to receive anal sex, this is harder to describe.įirst some anatomy. However, do expect a male to be a bit rougher with gripping things and go at it with a gusto most women cannot seem to manage. It feels no different from the same act performed by a woman basically. I'll start with the easiest part, the physical act of fellatio. Let's assume you aren't trolling and I'll do my best to answer.